Saying it Out Loud Makes It Real

I don’t like to admit when something is wrong, I’ll admit when I’m wrong, but not if I’M wrong- yeah? Yeahh. It’s not a quirk, it’s something that’s been ingrained in me for longer than I can remember. From the time I was young most of my pain would be waved away “It doesn’t hurt…

Not Everyone is Out To Screw You

And unlike a good friend of mine who read that line and said the words “Yeah I know some people who think everyone they meet wants to have sex with them” and yeah good buddy, those people need to rethink things too but that’s more off subject than you know. I harp about negativity breeding…

An (Embarrassing) Open Secret

I have IBS or Irritable Bowel Syndrome, most people equate IBS with diarrhea all ready but that’s not always the case- however, I do have IBS with diarrhea which means that I have to know where every bathroom is at all times. You know just in case dinner was hot wings with a liter of…

Love (After All This Time)

I mention my age a lot because I think it’s important to remember the age someone is in regards to their opinion; I know this may be a little ageist but I think anybody can agree that your opinion at sixteen is quite different than your opinion at forty six. So at thirty one I’ve…

Happy Birthday Robin

Robin William’s raised me, gave me a sense of humor and taught me that if I could make even one person smile then the world is better for it. I miss him daily. -Jess

Is it Loud in Here or is it Just Me?

I talk a lot about my chronic illnesses and disabilities because I think it’s important and it’s a part of my life as much as rude customers and getting cut off on the freeway is. But one of the many inconveniences I don’t always talk about is sensory sensitivities. It doesn’t happen often, but there…