To the Person Whose Wedding I Will One Day Ruin

Look, it’s not entirely your fault and that’s probably going to be the hardest part for you to swallow. It’s actually someone else’s fault for putting you in the position you were put in only for you to do exactly what you always do and disappoint us all. But me, you especially disappointed me. I…

Eating Well and The Bullshit I Tell Myself

I don’t like eating well, I don’t. I can’t say who doesn’t, because I know so many people who see a bunch of carrots and start salivating like a horse on a hot July afternoon. But me? I just never got the taste for healthy eating. I’ve tried, please do not think I haven’t; it’s…

Grim is a Friend

I’m not afraid to die. I’m not looking forward to getting to that point, nor do I want it to end any quicker than it’s supposed to; but I’m not afraid. I think I spent so much time navel-gazing as a teenager and that maybe the hours spent inside of my head gave me a…

Visible Invisibility

  These two photos were taken today, the lighter colored one was taking at 5am, the other one just about an hour ago. Migraines are generally whats called an “Invisible Illness” basically your sick but you don’t exactly look sick. Sometimes however certain symptoms can make your invisible illness very very visible. What’s going on here is that…

Gardening: Or How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love the Dirt

When I was a kid people used to throw earthworms at me. I know what you’re thinking “But Jess that must of only happened a few times?” To my memory? At least ten, which if I remember correctly is more than a few. Kids, adults, friends, family. It didn’t matter who it was, the moment…